Elgin, Suzette Haden. You can't say that to me! : stopping the pain of verbal abuse : an 8-step program / Suzette Hayden Elgin. - New York : Wiley, c1995. - xviii, 206 p. ; 24 cm. ISBN: 0471003956 (alk. paper) 0471003999 (pbk. : alk. paper) LCCN: 94036128 LC Class. No.: BF637.V47 .E4337 1995 / E4337 1995 Dewey Class. No.: 153.6